Friday, December 13, 2019
Why Your Job Should Make You Uncomfortable
Why Your Job Should Make You UncomfortableWhy Your Job Should Make You UncomfortableTheres a guy I know whos simply amazing at his job. Hes an executive level creative at a global marketing agency, and besides being great to work with, he has an eye for visual design thats pretty much unparalleled. He rocks it every single time.But hes also terrified most of the time he told me as much. As good as he is, and as good as hes proven himself to be, hes scared that the next project will go spectacularly wrong or that it wont be beautiful in the ways he knows it can be.How can he be so good at what he does and still be so scared?The answers actually pretty simple- because hes always pushing at the edges of his experience and straying into new territory.Hes not afraid to be uncomfortable.Think about it. A job that offers only comfort is a job thats completely familiar. There are no surprises. Everything the job requires, youve done before. Its predictable, safe, and duller than dirt, and it might seem as though such a job would be a solid choice for a risk-free way to earn a few bucks.But the longer you stay somewhere out of the desire to be safe or comfortable, the more your worldview narrows, the more your confidence gets eroded, and the more your sense of who you are diminishes.You might forget why you took the job in the first place. All kinds of tiny things start annoying and frustrating you. You worry about risk and change more than you ever did before. You dont remember what your best looks like, and joy becomes a concept thats more and more elusive.This is how people slip into a rut, with the initial appeal of comfort becoming a bad habit thats increasingly hard to break. As that rut gets deeper, the greater the gap between where you are and where you could be, and the more frustration, stress, and anger leaks out.Discomfort, on the other hand, means that youre out there exploring. It means youre in a place you havent been before maybe youre learning a skill f or the first time that makes you feel clumsy or incompetent. Maybe youre applying an existing skill in an entirely new way, like problem-solving your way through a whole new bag of issues or building rapport with C-suite execs. Or maybe youre in the spotlight like never before, perhaps because you get to call the shots or perhaps because others value your insights.Problem is, discomfort comes with fear, doubt, and second-guessing, and our preferred response to those things is to pull back and go back to where we feel safe.So heres the trick Stop thinking that you shouldnt be uncomfortable and that discomfort is bad or unwanted. Its not even that you need to start thinking that those things are good or desirable. Its simply seeing them as a thing that happens from time to time, and still coming at them with everything you are.Comfort and safety can be far more damaging to you in the long-term than discomfort and risk, particularly in todays world. Which leads us to one big questionIf you could find comfort in the uncomfortable and feel safe amid the unknown, what difference would that make to you?Photo of memo courtesy of Shutterstock.
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